Jerry Lanson Jerry Lanson

A thrilling Olympics

From the new “breaking” event to the women’s broad jump, the exuberance of the Paris Olympics has inspired me. The competition undoubtedly has been fierce, but it’s also been joyous, filled with fist bumps, high fives and hugs for teammates and competitors alike.

Snoop Dogg, torch carrier, personality and super fan, summed it up in an interview with NBC’s Mike Tirico Thursday night: “It’s about bringing the whole world together.”

I’ve loved the Olympics, particularly in summer, since I was a kid. That’s when I learned, in 1960, that 100-meter and 200-meter gold medalist Wilma Rudolph was one of 22 children and had overcome polio as a kid to become the world’s fastest woman.  That story left an imprint.

Today, in 2024, as well, the subtext of the games remains resilience . . .

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Neil Offen Neil Offen

Those Trying-To-figure-out-a-New-phone blues

Like many of us, I sometimes have a love-hate relationship with tech. And right now, I’m hating.

But I’m not a Luddite, really.

Like many of us, I marvel at the ability to zoom with someone on the other side of the world. I am pleasantly flabbergasted at being able to FaceTime from a Greek island and enthralled that I can listen to any music I want to listen to whenever I want to listen to it.

I am thrilled I can look up the name of the co-star of 1956’s “Invasion of the Body Snatchers” when I can’t think of it and I’m really happy I can post photos of my beach trip that anyone can be jealous of and yes, I’m very grateful I can help create a blog where people can see what I write and I can read what others of my generation have to say. . . .

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Terri Brooks Terri Brooks

Reincarnated and Well in Paris

To exit the (former) horrendous political scene, so draining and hopeless, I finally got myself a ticket to Paris where I am encamped— leaning toward a computer and writing a new book.

My Dream

It's amazing how much better I feel, how productive I've become, how happy I am to greet the world each day. . . .

What's your dream?

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Jerry Lanson Jerry Lanson

Simplify: Don’t Leave it to the Kids When You’re gone

Our double-wide bedroom clothing rack and shelves came crashing down with a bang last week.

Too many clothes and boxes above them proved too much weight and ripped the studs holding up the clothing rod right out of the wall. On Cape Cod, that means waiting until Fall when one of the overworked local handymen comes up for air.

Faced with a bed piled high with shirts, pants, old shoes, useless ties, belts and more, we quickly filled three big garbage bags with clothes we hadn’t worn in years, threw some out and took the rest to a local second-hand store. It certainly wasn’t the first time our possessions had gotten the better of us. . . .

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Neil Offen Neil Offen

Feels so good feeling good again

A couple of weeks ago, right here on this brilliant website, I wrote about a sense of despair, a sense of being poked in the ribs by events again and again. That time now feels so long ago.

In those two weeks, the political world seems to not have just changed, but to have flipped upside down. Everything that had gone wrong now seems to be going right, and everything that had gone right for those lucky bastards on the other side seems, finally, to have begun cratering. . . .

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Neil Offen and Mitchell Stephens Neil Offen and Mitchell Stephens

More Things We Miss

Comics in the newspaper

Stickball in the street

Civil political disagreements

The Rand McNally Road Atlas . . .

And More Things We Don’t Miss

Hair curlers

Running out of film . . .

Click for more of each

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Neil Offen Neil Offen

The decline of the French

While watching the opening ceremonies of the Paris Olympics, two things stuck out:

  • It was raining in Paris, like I remember it always was.

  • ·And the big opening number featured Lady Gaga, an American, and the big closing number featured Celine Dion, a Canadian.

When I lived in Paris, 45 (!) or so years ago, it was pretty much always raining. That first summer, in our immeuble de grand standing in the 7th arrondissement, we wore sweat pants and sweatshirts in July and August because it was so cold and damp. We were convinced that Parisians’ generally sour mood then—at least to Americans—was simply a reflection of their generally sour weather. We were convinced that Yip Harburg, who wrote the lyrics to “April in Paris,” had never been east of the East River. . . .

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Sonia Jaffe Robbins Sonia Jaffe Robbins

Growing Up Red

Red-diaper baby. Does anyone under the age of 50 or who’s not in a left-wing corner of the universe know what a red-diaper baby is?

I didn’t know until I was in college. I told a friend about my grandfather’s response to the Taft-Hartley law, which required all labor union officers to sign an affidavit that they were not then and never had been a Communist Party member. As a Fur and Leather Workers Union officer, he decided to take early retirement in 1948 rather than join his friend, union president Ben Gold, in fighting the law. My friend informed me that a grandparent belonging to the U.S. Communist Party made me a red-diaper baby.

Recently I attended a salon of almost a dozen other red-diaper babies, all women. We had grown up in the 1940s, ’50s, ’60s . . .

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Mitchell Stephens Mitchell Stephens

I Gave Him the Finger

Maybe I need to be more chill.

That thought arrived, not for the first time, the other day.

I wasn’t thinking politics—about which I feel the need to be even more engaged. I was thinking about my day-to-day encounters with fellow humans.

I was in my car on 107th Street in Manhattan, just east of Broadway, when I underwent this particular revelation.

I had been driving slowly—not, mind you, just because I’m old. I was driving slowly mostly because I was, as I often am, looking for a parking spot . . .

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Rob Gelblum Rob Gelblum

Why our music has endured

      As a musician and recovering lawyer, I’m taking a dive into why I hardly play any songs younger than 35 years old.

      It’s not just that this old fart kinda stopped listening to pop music some years ago; it relates to the wonderfulness of the music of the ‘50s/’60s/’70s. I’d be the last to argue that that music was somehow superior to today’s. But its border-crossing had lasting effects.

      White kids started listening to R&B/soul, thanks in no small part to the legendary DJ Alan Freed. Before you knew it, that music was affecting the young genre called rock ‘n’ roll, in the U.S. and across the pond. (See, for example, some Liverpudlian band which thought it cute to use a punny name that linked music and insects.) . . .

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Neil Offen Neil Offen

Waddaya Think

OK, we’re bringing back one of our early Writing About Our Generation features, a new question for you, loyal reader:

What’s your favorite song? All right, we’ll make it easier:

What are your three favorite songs?

The songs that you still want to hear again and again. The songs that immediately conjure up distinct memories. The songs that have been the soundtrack of your life.

You’ve lived through one of the most dynamic, creative, varied periods in music history, a period that saw the birth of rock and roll, the life and death of disco, the metamorphosis of country, the dominance of hip hop. What has stayed with you? . . .

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Melinda Moulton Melinda Moulton

Dancing Through Time

      I have always loved dancing and can honestly say I am a surprisingly good dancer. Maybe because I’ve been dancing all my life—and will continue to.

      I have learned how to do the James Brown Shuffle, the Michael Jackson Air Walk, the Tina Turner Bump and Grind and excelled at the Shimmy Shimmy Shake Shake. I grew up watching Dick Clark and his American Bandstand TV show and as a young teen would sneak off to Philadelphia to join the “Geater with the Heater”—Gerry Blavet—at his live dances.

      Our generation, I think, is the best at dancing because dancing was so important to us. We did the Twist, the Mashed Potato, the Monster Mash, the Hully Gully, the Pony, the Hitch Hike, the Swim and the Locomotion, to name just a few. . . .

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Neil Offen Neil Offen

On memory and Old beer

My beer is Rheingold, the dry beer.

Think of Rheingold whenever you buy beer.

It's not bitter, not sweet; it's the dry flavored treat.

Won't you try extra dry Rheingold beer?

For no reason at all, at least no reason I can think of, this 1950s-era beer jingle popped into my head the other day. To make matters worse, I began singing it—and immediately, my friend Mitch began singing along. Because, of course, he knew the jingle, too, and the tune, such as it was.

Without really trying to, we had dredged it up from the deep recesses of our brains. We had not known at all that we remembered the jingle, had not thought of the jingle in years, but once the first few words came, the brain went into automatic response mold and there was the entire thing. . . .

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Mitchell Stephens Mitchell Stephens

The Atomic Age, Reevaluated

      On July 16, we celebrated—or, actually, failed to celebrate—the 79th anniversary of the beginning of the Atomic Age. Okay, a 79th birthday is not usually something to make a fuss about. However, I’m going to use this one to take stock of the Atomic Age—an age (the age?) in which all of us have lived for all or most of our lives.

       I want to make some points—including one controversial point—about nuclear weapons: about the history of employing for potential military use the vast energy derived by splitting the nuclei of uranium or plutonium (fission)—or, subsequently, the even vaster energy produced by fusing hydrogen nuclei to form helium (fusion).

      But first let me briefly commemorate the anniversary . . . .

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Carol Offen Carol Offen

Off the grid when the world changed

Sunday afternoon, while most of the country—and much of the world—was reeling from the big news and madly scrolling thru social media updates, my daughter and I were laughing uproariously for about two straight hours.

No, we didn’t find news of Joe Biden stepping aside amusing and surely not guffaw-level. We were in an Off-Broadway theater watching a hilarious comedy (“The Play That Goes Wrong”), blissfully unaware of the news.

We hadn’t checked our phones en route to or on arriving at the theater, nor during intermission, and not even when we came out of the theater. Afterward, we relaxed outdoors in a little park next door, happily reliving favorite scenes from the play. . . .

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Jerry Lanson Jerry Lanson

Yes We Kam

My wife Kathy says I'm married to my phone. This week I won't deny it:

It's the most exciting political week I've experienced since the Watergate hearings led me to journalism as a career 50 years ago. 

Last Sunday, I was nearing despair, figuring out where to move after Donald Trump crushed Joe Biden in the presidential election. I was losing faith Biden would see the wisdom—the absolutely necessity—of his dropping out of the race. Then, just as quickly, he dropped out and passed the torch to his vice-president.

What followed was stunning. She raised $100 million in less than two days, 62 percent from first-time donors to this campaign. Her campaign signed up 28,000 new volunteers in a day. . . .

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Frank Van Riper Frank Van Riper

Biden’s departure changes everything

Donald Trump may literally have dodged a bullet in Pennsylvania a week ago, but there aren't enough ear bandages in the world to shield him from the sea change that just occurred in the 2024 presidential race.

Trump’s 'Go-Back-to-the-White House-Free' card—a clearly diminished Joe Biden—has wisely stepped aside, endorsing his take-no-bullshit veep Kamala Harris to be the Democrats' 2024 presidential nominee.

This changes everything, even after the GOP’s post-assassination-attempt love fest for Trump and his sycophantic mini-me, J.D. Vance. With a 59-year-old minority female as the prospective Democratic nominee, the “age question” now fails squarely back on Trump, a 78-year-old loser who fell asleep at his criminal trial in New York and at his own convention—and who cannot utter back-to-back coherent sentences, much less the truth. . . .

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Mitchell Stephens Mitchell Stephens

A Glimmer of Hope

      So, it finally happened.

      These things move ridiculously slowly.

      Biden for weeks refused to throw in the towel:

  • despite all the evidence of his growing unpopularity,

  • despite all the evidence that he wasn’t the one who could fend off Donald Trump’s return to the presidency,

  • despite all the evidence that he had (if you’ll forgive a flagrant mixed metaphor) lost a step mentally,

  • despite the fact that he would be 86 by the end of a second term—the cause of much of that unpopularity.

      These things move ridiculously slowly until they move ridiculously fast. . . .

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