Still More of What We Miss
Paper concert tickets. Thick enough to survive a wallet and you could keep them for years as a memento
Not constantly monitoring yourself, worrying about caffeine or sugar or steps or sleep
Being unreachable for entire afternoons . . .
Could a Murder be a turning point?
Let’s acknowledge, first, that there is a healthy percentage of our population that will support him and this administration no matter what he does, no matter what countries he attacks, no matter what crimes ICE commits, no matter what obvious lies spew forth from Washington. After all, in 1974, when scandal-scarred Richard Nixon resigned the White House, a quarter of the population still approved of his performance as president.
But in just the last week, there was, first, the brazen attack on Venezuela, which had to shake those who may have believed Trump’s promises against foreign entanglements. And then, and most important, there is the murder of Renée Nicole Good by Trump’s rampaging ICE agents.
This was not, after all George Floyd, who some percentage of the white population could dismiss as a black man with a criminal record. This was not Kilmar Abrego Garcia, a brown man who wasn’t born in this country.
This was a middle-class white woman. …
Remembering Radio
At a dinner party recently, a neighbor told me about the radio station WXPN (“Vinyl at Heart”), a member-supported station affiliated with the University of Pennsylvania. A couple of days later, I checked it out. Their program list was interesting and included programs like “Funky Friday” and “Highs in the 70s.”
The station was in the middle of its annual countdown of the 885 best cover songs. I happened to catch a really nice cover of the Velvet Underground’s “Sweet Jane” by Two Nice Girls, a band I never heard of. I heard The Brothers Johnson’s “Strawberry Letter 23,” a song I had not heard in nearly 50 years, that took me right back to my junior year of high school. I loved hearing the DJs comment on the songs they were playing.
I almost never listen to the radio anymore. . . .
Reading “1984” in the Age of trump
. . . Why did I react so differently to reading “1984” now as opposed to when I was a young adult decades ago?
We live in the Age of Trump. His attempts to bend truth and reality to his liking remind me of Big Brother and the Party in “1984.” Trump’s recasting January 6, 2021, is Example No. 1. We all (including prominent Republicans) watched horrified as Trump’s MAGA minions stormed the Capitol and smashed its windows, assaulted police officers, paraded a Confederate flag through the Rotunda and threatened to lynch the vice president and to kill the speaker of the house. Images of the insurrection were embedded in our memories.
And yet, within weeks, Trump proclaimed his MAGA thugs acted like patriots when they tried to destroy our democracy . . .
Wittgenstein & the 20th Century: A video
The case can be made that the great intellectual struggle of the 20th century was the struggle of variety, indeterminacy, pastiche and, most of all, humor to subdue often stifling dogma, rigid formulas, pat beliefs, inevitably accepted truth--the struggle, as it might be put, of uncertainty to subdue certainty. One of the more important arenas in which this struggle took place was the mind of the man some consider to be the greatest philosopher of that century: Ludwig Wittgenstein.
His father was one of the richest men in Europe. The only house he ever owned he built on a cliff in Norway, where much of this video was shot. Three of his brothers killed themselves. And, oh yeah, Ludwig Wittgenstein is often considered the most significant philosopher of the 20th century.
Our Collective Shame
Yeah, we’ve been here before. Lots of times in fact.
Afghanistan and Iraq, most recently. But also: Panama, Grenada, Chile, in this hemisphere, and Iran and, of course, Vietnam, across oceans. All just in our lifetime.
So, maybe Venezuela shouldn’t come as much of a surprise. Particularly given our current regime. Over the last few months, we’ve unleashed military in our own streets, against our own people. Why not do the same thing on someone else’s streets? …
Praise and Gratitude for Educators
A decade ago, I was honored to be asked to give a guest lecture at a graduate school class in my area of professional practice—city and regional planning. It was a memorable experience, interacting with students who wanted to learn more about what I had to offer, and who offered their intelligence and ideas in return.
I ended up doing guest lectures regularly over the following years, inspired and humbled with each experience. Then came the honor I believe will be a capstone of my career: an invitation to teach an entire semester of a course for a faculty member who would be going on sabbatical.
It took me 10 seconds to say “yes.” . . .
In History’s Bigger picture: Trump is a blotch
Take this hopeful thought into 2026: the tyrants we endure always falter, and their “seismic” upheavals are usually false dawns.
Revolutions are overrated, intrinsically unpredictable and typically followed by counter-revolutions. True turning points in history are actually quite rare—and difficult to spot. Even rarer are genuinely world-changing leaders. Donald Trump presents a case study.
The way Trump tells it, he’s Alexander, Charlemagne, George Washington, Napoleon and Mahatma Gandhi all rolled into one. Yet after a decade at the top of U.S. politics, solid achievements are few. . . .
This is an excerpt from an opinion column in The Guardian by foreign affairs columnist Simon Tisdall. We recommend you read the full version here.
We ‘Celebrated’ New Year’s Eve in a Tow Truck
It’s New Year’s Eve and we’re not going out. We have a thing about New Year’s Eves, with a pretty good reason.
We were tired, hungry and cramped as we bounced along winding mountain roads in the cab of a large tow truck. Our three-year-old fortunately was blissfully asleep on my lap, and my husband was seated between us and the driver.
In pitch darkness, somewhere near the French Mediterranean coast, I managed to make out the time on my watch: midnight. “Happy new year,” I muttered to my husband. . . .
The most significant periods of technological change
There have been quite a few periods in human history when new technologies jolted us forward and some significant old ways of doing or even thinking about things were, as a result, left behind.
Which were the most important of those periods? That is the question I have taken a very tentative stab at answering here. . . .
Our Worst Year?
Well, yeah, it’s not been a great year. In fact, let’s face it, it’s been a terrible year and we all should be glad to see it gone.
The inauguration of a vile, narcissistic, felonious psychopath, and all that has come after. The continuation of dreadful wars in Ukraine and Gaza. Masked secret police on our streets. Terrible warming-climate fueled natural disasters. Mass shootings after mass shootings. Sudan. Bondi Beach. Murders. Deportations, Brown University, Charlie Kirk, war crimes, measles epidemics, airplane crashes and so much horribly more.
It’s been an exhausting year, a bleak year, a year that made us stop talking to each other and maybe start hating each other and wanting it all just to go away. . .
But, alas, it’s not the worst year of our lifetimes. Alas, maybe not even close. . . .
fURTHER reading about Our Generation
Here’s some of what we have seen recently that might be of particular interest to our generation. (Apologies for any pay walls.) Send us what you have seen at WritingAboutOurGeneration@gmail.com.
Willie Nelson is 92 and Feeling Lucky, Grayson Haver Currin, GQ, Dec. 4, 2025
These Are the 10 Old Television Series Every Kid Needs to Watch, John McWhorter, New York Times, Oct. 9, 2025
Can we save travel's most beloved tradition?, Asia London Palomba, Dec. 12, 2025
The Last Good Thin: DVDs, streaming, and the price of nostalgia, Jess Love, The American Scholar, Dec. 11, 2025
Why More Older New Yorkers Are Ending Up in Homeless Shelters, Andy Newman, New York Times, June 24, 2024
How to be the archivist of your own family, Samantha Ellis, Psyche, December 2025
Why Are More Older People Dying After Falls?, Paula Span, New York Times, Sept. 7, 2025
The Night Santa Came to Visit
My son Eli was only four years old back in 1976. He was surrounded by simplicity, being raised by two young hippies in their twenties with not much to their name. We were living high on a hilltop in Huntington, Vermont,on a meadow in a tiny stone house that we built ourselves. Our home was only accessible by walking because once it snowed, our steep and precarious long driveway was not made for an old front-wheel drive car with crappy tires.
The house was unfinished, and we lived on the ground floor with a masonry tub for water that we heated on a gas stove, a wood furnace in the basement for heat, and not much else. We did not have a telephone, a television or a computer. What we did have were hopes and dreams and unwavering youthful expectations and the pleasure, contentment and peace we felt living surrounded by a hardwood forest in a home we built with our own hands. . . .
Evicted: the Night Before Christmas
Here’s a holiday tale, with a melancholy tinge and an ultimately hopeful ending.
It was December, a couple of weeks before Christmas. It was Paris, and although it may have been the holiday season, in the terribly misnamed City of Light it was monochromatically gray and drizzly, as it almost always was from November through March.
It felt cold and cold-hearted, which matched our mood.
We felt alone and adrift. I mean, really alone in a way that’s really hard to be these days.
We had moved to Paris a year and a half earlier, mainly because we had wanted to and we could. Without kids, without jobs that tied us down, we were young and flexible, somewhat adventurous and reasonably foolish. And of course we had absolutely no idea what we were getting into. . . .
ADVENTUAL
This moment is seamless. What we think of as time is itself an aspect of eternity. We use the idea of time to focus our attention—to notice, to point. Sometimes, as in this moment, our pointing is also a remembering.
When we mark something on the Christian calendar, as we do with Advent, we are highlighting something already present. We draw it forth from the seamless ground of being and render it remarkable. It is fitting that Advent is a season of darkness. This small message highlights not darkness versus light, but their interpenetration: the light present in darkness before we see it clearly—before we recognize it as Light.
To navigate what we call life, we have developed a language that divides the world into pairs of opposites. This serves us well in some practical matters, less well in others. One such division is us and others. Often, without noticing, we set people apart from ourselves—othering them—forgetting who we actually are. . . .
In Defense of the Smartphone II
The conquering of the world by smartphones has certainly been one of the most visible and most significant technological changes we have witnessed in our lifetimes.
Opinions on whether it has been a change for the better most definitely differ.
A month ago I suggested that we post on this site an intelligent and interesting, though in my view wrongheaded, screed by James Marriott, who thinks the smartphone has been a giant step backwards. Then we published my rebuttal, in which I argued that the smartphone is just another new technology that makes old folks nervous but ends up broadening horizons. And, because smartphones have become such an important part of our lives, we published my friend and colleague Neil Offen’s own thoughtful attack on the smartphone and its consequences: a rebuttal of my rebuttal.
But this is a big subject and, given the time we’re all spending on our phones, an important one. There’s more I want to say—this time in a satirical vein, or at least an attempt at a satirical vein . . .
A Politician Who Mattered
When I was studying early childhood special education, I became a lifelong fan of North Carolina Governor Jim Hunt. Children, and in particular young children, did well during his four terms as governor.
In 2009 Elon University was taking its sweet time deciding who would be its next dean of education. Even after extensive interviews, my professional credentials earned at the University of Maryland were judged inadequate in some critical way. Elon decided they needed to bring in the former “education governor” to check me out, and soon I was on a plane for the third time to Carolina where I would be interviewed by former governor Hunt himself.
Yikes.
I had a few days to prepare for what I knew would be tough questions from perhaps the most education-wise governor ever . . .
On Deterioration
Status report on my body:
Right shoulder — painful when lifting or reaching; likely partially torn rotator cuff.
Left foot and leg — regular numbness and weakness; possible nerve impingement.
Lower back and right hip — frequent, occasionally severe, stiffness with deteriorated spinal vertebrae; MRI needed.
Ears — profound hearing loss in right ear; hearing aids on the way.
Throat — voice hoarse more often than not.
Heart, left anterior descending artery — blocked; stent implanted; recovery continuing.
If it seems like it’s one thing after another, it’s because it is indeed one thing after another. That’s the deal when you get old. . . .
Profiting off the Presidency
This is an excerpt from a longer list of Trump’s corrupt profiting published in The Contrarian and written by Norman Eisen, and Gabriel Lezra. We urge you to read the entire piece there.
No president in American history has profited off the presidency the way Donald Trump has—and it’s not close.
1. Trump’s Qatari Boeing
In May, Qatar presented Trump and his administration with a $400 million Boeing 747, ostensibly to use as Air Force One—a present reportedly worth more than all foreign gifts bestowed on all former American presidents combined. As my colleagues and I noted in a legal complaint, the Trump administration is apparently illegally transferring the nearly $1 billion from a nuclear weapons program at the Defense Department to retrofit the jet, a gross mismanagement of key federal funds. And it will barely have time in the air before Trump’s term ends and it gets “donated” to Trump’s presidential library for his continued use. . . .
An Obscene Response to a Tragedy
Betcha it sucks to be a Trumplican right now—or at least one with a still-functioning frontal lobe. After all, now you have to defend this shit.
The Orange Pustule's obscene, unhinged—and fundamentally callous and cruel—screed following the murder of Rob Reiner and his wife probably is the worst thing this monster ever has said in public as president.
No need for me to re-post; it's all over the #!@%!! internet. And it says a lot that when I first read those heinous words, I assumed they were written by some anti-Trump troll bent on tasteless mischief.
Silly me. For there it was, up on Truth Social, with Trump himself proudly owning his words like a toddler on the toilet for the first time proudly holding up his turd for all to see. …

